today is my 73rd year circling the sun
and i think
not of the past, but
rather of all that i’ve yet begun
this year, for me, has a special bite
as i live in solitude–on previous occasions
as an adult, i have never been alone
always a companion close by enough
i could touch them without a phone
perhaps, as i age, i taste how
my paternal fore-fathers have
literally been men who died
without spouses by their side
my grandfather, whom i remember
saying his father came from paris, france
died during hurricane betsy sequestered
into a closet, his body not revealed
until a week after the drowning
my burly father, my map of manhood
who transitioned while i and my two brothers
stood silent at his hospital bed side
both branches of my lineage
were wifeless when they expired
and similarly i am recently wifeless
as i live–it is not a morbid thought
simply a recognition of reality
i am a writer
i remind myself and the world
this morning i snuggled into a black t-shirt
emblazoned with a photo
of my patron saint, langston hughes
i still have so much i want to do
not places to go (especially
as i am encased in this virus blighted world)
not even people i want to see
but rather book projects to complete
and, hopefully, friends and survivors
to inspire, and so, to them and
to the world, i say: salud, carry on
hold the line, maintain the struggle
to make this world
better and more beautiful
no matter what is before us
let us leave behind
actions, times and memories
that make all of us
better and more beautiful
–24 march 2020
Amen and ase…